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I have been dating a man for about 5 months and everything is pretty good.

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I said that my future husband would just take my car and I would take his.

He told me that if we marry that that car switching wouldn’t work (he doesn’t like small cars) and that I better buy a car that could hold the entire family (including his family). I can tell you right off the bat that I can’t tell you what the best move is going to be, but I can understand the guy’s reluctance to make it official… For a guy who’s already been married and has custody for one of his two children, I can imagine why he would be very cautious in making commitments with a new woman.

But I believe that things can change as time goes on.

I can’t guarantee it in your situation specifically, but generally speaking things can work out as long as the guy is working through his issues.

It sounds to me like he wants to have a good relationship – he talks about the future, he introduced you to his family, he treats you like a girlfriend.

From what you said, it doesn’t sound like he’s trying to avoid commitment so that he can see other women.

My bet is that the root of it is some kind of fear or bad experience.

I don’t know the guy or have much information on him, so I am just making a guess.

It still raises the question of how long that will take, but it’s a much different situation than an apathetic guy passively seeing a girl with little effort or interest in the future of the relationship. Try your best to be rational and to avoid jumping to conclusions…

Having a title sounds like it would be reassuring, but if you were forced to choose between having an amazing relationship I would say that it would be a good move for you to take a look at what your thoughts are on the matter. I say this because when you mentioned that you proposed leaving the relationship after he didn’t want to call you his girlfriend, it struck me as kind of an extreme, all-or-nothing type of response.

One thing I said was that if you’ve been seeing a guy for 3 months and he’s not calling you his girlfriend, chances are he won’t.

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