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It is an immediate sense of curiosity that some Colombian women have upon meeting a foreigner.Most of my close friends here in Medellin are foreigners and I have seen girls break their neck checking them out as we walk down the street.Seeing beautiful women here is so common that Colombian men don’t even turn to look, it’s ridiculous.

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On the street, I am usually attracted to women who look as if they are on their way to an office job.

Generally, these women will be dressed and fashionable.

Furthermore, I am aware of the underworld of sex tourism and prostitution in Colombia and I know that there are many strip clubs and brothels in Medellin; however, strippers and pros are not the types of girls that I date, nor is it something I would like to promote; therefore, I will not be referring to that in this post. My situation is a little different than most foreigners here in Colombia.

I am actually Colombian, my family is Colombian, and more importantly (aside from my height, 6’2″) I look Colombian.

For an emasculated man from the United States, this is a nightmare.

Penetrating that group of friends, playing “the game” in order to get to your “target girl” is hard work, and sometimes does not work if you don’t speak Spanish well enough for her to understand.Many guys who come to Colombia cannot pick up girls in their own native language let alone in Spanish and some even have the audacity to say that the women here are just “gold diggers” or “too difficult” and that is not accurate at all.Here in Medellin, you do NOT need to play that game.So I do not have that instant “gringo effect” on them.The “gringo effect” is the reaction a foreign guy gets from some girls here in Medellin.A certain amount of negligence after making an impression piques a woman’s interest, it is the whole psychological framework of the type of women who wants a strong man (check out this great article on Psychology Today by Gina Barreca, Ph.

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